Monthly Archives: April 2013

Proper Job

Not, in this case, the West Country dialect term for “well done” or “great”, but actually talking about employment with a steady wage. I haven’t got one yet, and it still might not happen, but I have been invited to … Continue reading

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The people I don’t like at munches

I should make it very clear before I start that this is not about anybody in particular, although if you think that I might be talking about you then it might be wise to look at why you think that, … Continue reading

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The “looking for” lists and “Errare Humanum Est”

This got long, and at times rant-y. Still, I’m happy with what it says so I’m putting it out there: I tend to reckon that, as potential boyfriends go, I have a lot going for me. Sure, I’m tubby and … Continue reading

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Reflections of D/s and my mind

I’ve got to one of the key sex scenes in my novel. The slave in the central Master/slave relationship is having her first session (a) with another woman and (b) topping (although this is under the guidance of her Master). … Continue reading

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Gazing at males

I’m not out to do much analysis in this post, but rather to signal-boost two very different takes on women wanting to look at men’s bodies. The first to cross my radar is from fair-trade, feminist porn producer/performer Pandora Blake, … Continue reading

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Speed dating questions for the socially conscious?

As noted yesterday, I am “a somewhat lonely, somewhat het (although not exclusively so), somewhat socially awkward, somewhat male (although again, not exclusively so) individual of (at least apparently) the species homo sapiens“. As noted yesterday, I sometimes want to … Continue reading

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The way things turn

The past long weekend, with two bank holidays (Good Friday and Easter Monday), has proved to be a real trial of spirit. Stress has been somewhat greater than normal. I have been called upon to be a rock for my … Continue reading

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Why would I want someone who doesn’t know why?

As a somewhat lonely, somewhat het (although not exclusively so), somewhat socially awkward, somewhat male (although again, not exclusively so) individual of (at least apparently) the species homo sapiens, I have naturally from time to time (despite my better judgement) … Continue reading

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