Category Archives: Kink

STORY: Pleasure and Loyalty Protocols

CONTENT NOTE: The following story was written for a “no sex” tag challenge on another site; nevertheless, it involves nonconsent (and the acronym R.A.P.E. for the “bad guys”) and mind control themes which may be troubling for some readers. STR-2.03 … Continue reading

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Weekly(?) Creative Update 15-06-19

Here’s a quick update on my creative endeavours over the last week or two. I will try to make this a regular weekly update (even if it gets repetitive) just as a way to remind myself to blog more often … Continue reading

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Thoughts on Cambridge Pride

On Saturday, I went to the Cambridge Pride event, which was not really a parade, it had more of a village fete vibe to it when I was there. The weather was horrible and wet, but there were still plenty … Continue reading

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Con Report: #Eroticon 2019

I’ve already written a couple of posts in the aftermath of Eroticon 2019 (a review of the Ruby Glow toy and my adaptation of it for male pleasure, and a new/old short story about discovering meaning in BDSM as an … Continue reading

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SHORT STORY: Senses Of Submission

At Eroticon 2019, there was a panel called Anxious Writers’ Club – and woah boy, does that resonate with me, so I went along. Cara Thereon mentioned how lots of us start things, save them in the draft folder, and … Continue reading

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Ruby Glow-ooooh! (Review)

I’m back from the Eroticon 2019 sexbloggers conference, where there were some fabulous sponsors and even though I don’t currently have a vag or clit, the rather wonderful Tabitha Rayne gave me (half-price, not totally free) one of her Ruby … Continue reading

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2019 Eroticon Virtual Meet And Greet post

NAME (and Twitter if you have one) My “nom de plume/guerre” is Valery North, @ValeryNorth (link in the righthand sidebar) Tell us 3 things you are most looking forward to at Eroticon 2019 1. Meeting people I’ve only known as … Continue reading

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Sun, sea, sex and dice rolls

For the past year or so, I have been working on a new project. (Along with 3 different novel ideas in various stages and states of being written, plus various short stories for fun, and recording and writing songs. And … Continue reading

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SEXTOY REVIEW: These nipple toys really suck (in a GOOD way)

[Apologies for the clichéd title but my brain was lazy!] Once upon a time, this was meant to be a blog about writing, and kinky sex, and writing about kinky sex, and sexing about kinky writing (Wait, is that right? … Continue reading

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Life at 40: Middle-aged and Not Dead Yet

CONTENT NOTE: Suicidal ideation; mention of BDSM So last weekend was a big family party to celebrate my 40th birthday. My birthday was not actually this weekend, but close enough to make tacking on a party to a previously scheduled … Continue reading

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